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Psychology Of Fear and How To Deal With It

Many of us fear different things in life. Some are minor and fade away with time while a few of them are deep-rooted and accompany us for the rest of our lives. Human beings are an amalgamation of emotions and fear comes with the entire package. No two people will have the same kind of phobia and no one can say for sure if they learn to battle it out and overcome it, or choose to live with it for as long as they live. Fear is real and everybody experiences it at some point in his or her life. With that being said, let's get to know what fear is and what does it do to people.

Defining Fear And The Psychology Behind It!

Ways To Deal With Fear!

1) Feel the fear and do it anyway~

There's a famous book that's written by late author Susan Jeffers, 'Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway'. It's highly recommended that you read this book. It has valuable insights about feeling any kind of fear and continuing with one's task, whatever it may be. It makes you realize an extremely valuable lesson and i.e. as long as you continue to grow as a person, you will experience various kinds of fears and apprehensions. And that shouldn't deter you in accomplishing what you ought to do. The only way to combat fear is to face it head-on. As scary as it may sound, but that's the truth. You're blessed with this life and that cannot be spent by being caged in your fears. If you want to explore the nook and crannies of this world, then you've got to take appropriate steps and that begins by facing what scares you.

2) Systematic Desensitization~
This method is used by many psychologists in their therapy sessions and it works wonders for many. Systematic desensitization is exposing a person gradually to things, situations or events that seem to trigger fear. If a person is terrified of spiders, then the first session is spent by talking about various spiders and bugs. The next session is concentrated on watching YouTube videos or a documentary about them. And then few weeks later, eventually holding a live spider. These little steps are effective in making a person realize that the fear that's harbouring inside isn't that bad and can be managed effectively.

3) Correct Thinking Mistakes~
Try and change your perspective about fear. Instead of looking at it as something dreadful and unpleasant, approach it with the intend of learning something out of it. Experience is the best teacher one can find. So dive in and see what life has to offer. It can be anything under the sun. If you're scared of water, take beginners lessons in swimming with an instructor. In case speaking in public gives you jitters, attend a public speaking program and learn the nuances of facing a crowd. Once you get into the habit of changing the way you think and looking at fears positively, there's nothing that can scare you from then on.

4) Failure Is Good~
In reality, there are umpteen people who are fearful only because they fear failure. We're a generation that was brought up with the ideology that failure is bad. But in reality, it's the best thing that can happen to anybody. Success is sweet, no doubt. But failure teaches you something that success doesn't and i.e. perseverance. People tend to get complacent with success, but failure gives you that drive to move on, work hard and achieve your dreams. Quit fearing roadblocks, detours and disappointments. They have the ability to direct you to something truly astounding that you'll cherish for the rest of your life.

So next time if a friend or an acquaintance tells you to 'snap-out' of your fears, smile and tell him or her that you're working on them and you will overcome them no matter what.

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